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We’ve all seen the Hegel boyfriend meme but truly, theres a special thing about talking about philosophical things with an intimate, its special in the same way and for the same reason that it felt so good as a kid in sleepovers to latenight halfasleep turn over in the sleeping bag and ask your homie what do you think happens when you die. Its gotta be balanced with gossip and in-joke nourishment but finding that special one who wants to talk about the struggle for recognition + the radical legacy of dialectical thinking That’s the good stuff. Curious mutually. Not like: hey let me be the Man and do the teaching, that stuff sucks, for both parties too, assuming the fella isnt totally indifferent to the aura he’s stinking up the hang with. In the latter case it’s hopeless
Apr 22, 2025

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