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just because you feel sorry for someone does not mean you should endure their negative behaviour!
May 23, 2025
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why be negative when you can be positive. If you see someone do something dumb just ignore it (unless it’s especially funny then you can share it with friends another time).
We only live once so best to focus on the positives. When you’re nice to others you feel much better yourself. And everyone’s constantly learning, making mistakes anyway so while other people may seem uninformed sometimes, you also will be at points and you wouldn’t want to be ridiculed for that.
As for others being negative, just nod along and ignore. Or try to change the topic.
Jan 28, 2025
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I don’t mean this in a let’s enforce toxic positivity way. And maybe this sounds simple and obvious but I’ve learned from my own experience and observations that it can be off-putting to others to always be complaining, criticizing, or saying negative things! It can really bring the energy down whether it’s in interactions with close friends, significant others, family, coworkers, dates, or strangers and it doesn’t make people feel good.
This isn’t to say that you should never have critical thoughts, engage in difficult conversations, or share your heavy emotions with people you trust. but I think this is something people can do without even realizing it’s a pattern for them and it has an effect on your own psyche as well imo… and it feels great to bring a little light into someone’s day 🌦️
Apr 19, 2024
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Don't protect people from meeting the consequences of their actions. Kids included.
In my experience, the reason why people get away with treating others wrong or don't extract lessons from situations, is that they are not facing any consequences.
If somebody is not respecting the boundaries you transparently set, create consequences for them. If you were not transparent with the boundaries, accept the consequences of people breaking them.
If someone abuses you emotionally, make it freaking public. Doesn't matter if it's a promising young men or a promising young woman. Doesn't matter if somebody asks you not to.
Etc, etc, etc...
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